Jan 2, 2016: Lovemaking is a beautiful experience. It is something that brings two people close- physically and emotionally. However, if you are not satisfied with the experience then maybe you need to look into the matter.
It may not necessarily be your spouse’s fault, maybe there is something you are not adding to make it more eventful. You might be making certain mistakes, unintentionally, which can lead to drought in the sea of enjoyment.
Here are some common mistakes women does while making love. Stay away from these…….
=> Not Being Responsive
Are you too quiet or less responsive to his gestures or movements? Maybe you should reciprocate to let him know how it feels. It is good to let him do his thing. But, he will enjoy and make it even more enjoyable for you if you are a bit responsive to his approaches. So, the next time he comes around, don’t be quiet. It is about time you let him know that he drives you crazy.
=> Never Make Him Feel About Your Desire
Every partner wants to feel wanted, especially in bed. So, if you treat sex like a mundane activity it may put him off as well. Tease your man a little with your hand movements or simply run your fingers gently through his hair to heighten his drive. So, make him feel important in bed.
=> Too Much Shy
Many women are not comfortable with their body and feel embarrassed when the lights are on. You don’t wish to strip before him as you are too shy. This might also turn him off. Even if you have doubts about your body, he might not be thinking those things. He would like to see you be comfortable in your own skin. So, shun your inhibition and your cloak in his presence.
=> Thinks Sex Is Always Mechanical
Lovemaking does not have to be a mechanical act. You can bring in some extra elements in bed to enhance your love and passion. You can add extra things like handcuff and feathers to your lovemaking. Indulge in some role play or explore each other’s fantasies to escalate your experience further.
=> Lying About Enjoyment
You may not like his moves at all, and you might lie to him about enjoying it. Stop this and be straight forward with him. But, remember to be subtle in your words.
=> Being Too Calculative
Lovemaking is not just a process for having kids or a mundane routine. Well, even if you think so, you will definitely enjoy it more if you do it out of love rather than the ‘let’s do it’ attitude. Leave all your doubts and calculations at bay when you enter the bed. Be innovative and experiment to make it a fun-filled experience.
=> Always On Bed
Not just new positions, try new areas to reignite the fire. It may not be on your bed always, try it on a sofa or a kitchen top, or may be the bath tub! Add new twists and fun elements in your sex life.
=> Too Much Playing Around
Women often tend to go overboard with the fun before the actual action. Well, this leaves little time for the main activity. Break the barrier and progress. Too much playing around might also be putting your partner to sleep or at least killing his drive for sure. Making fake sounds is not good if you are not into it. This will just put him off.